He has a girlfriend but i love him. Should i leave?

[sub108]

I have been talking to a guy for almost three yrs but he has a girlfriend.  I dont know how to stop talking to him.  He says he loves me but cant leave his girlfriend of 10 yrs.  What do i do?

[undercovers]

talking for 3 years - thats got to be some sort of record!

[smudge]

undercovers - You just pipped me to the post!

 

If he can't leave his girlfriend for you - then he can't be 'in ove with you' he just loves you as a friend. I know it'll be hard for you, but you must move on & leave him to get on with his relationship. Chin up & good luck.

[smudge]

*love

[Ouisch]

Think of how you'd feel if you were his current girlfriend, and he's been "talking" to another girl for three years.  If he did it to her, he'd do it to you.  Run, don't walk, the other way.

[Dark Angel]

He should have married her by now if he was seeing her for 10 years. That shows he's not willing to make a commitment to her, and also if he's talking to you for 3 years as well, then as another post stated, he can do that to you as well. We all know these types of men. If you walk away, you'll be doing the right thing.