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[Lamine]

In your opinion, how a wonderful man look like? what attracts women the most about men ? 

[smudge]

For me it has to be: dark hair, swarthy skin, nice eyes, nice smile, a bit of stubble - hhmmm. Someone who is intelligent, stimululating, opens doors for you, buys you flowers, likes cooking, etc, etc. These are all the reasons I married my husband.

[SteveD]

Have a look here:

 

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Question75255.html

 

[CHOPS'R'US]

I have to agree with smudges discription of the man rather like mine in fact it is really.I am very much an eyes person when it comes to looks but i have to get to know them i won't just go out with them for the looks no way hosay!I have learnt that lesson very early on. Having a fair bit in common and being able to make me laugh and being comfortable with being silly together sometimes too, i am a very open person so thry have to be too andvery honest as i can't stand liar's and can pick them out early on even with women too which i avoid with a barge pole if i know they are like that.The same music is also a very good thing as you enjoy more nights out together and having mates like them is always a bonus and family too.Waffle de waffle on eh chops!

[smudge]

Well how the hell did I miss that thread then? Oh well never mind!

[smudge]

My sentiments entirely CHOPS'R'US!  Honesty & a sense of fun goes a long, long way. (I love the name by the way)!

[nicola_red]

Long blonde hair and blue eyes, tattoos and piercings, but I suspect I'm in something of a minority.

[Octavius]

I saw a wonderful man this morning.  He was in the mirror I was looking at

[smudge]

Oh you Bighead - ha ha!

[Octavius]

Smudge, when I look in the mirror I can see the real me, and I know that if I look through the dark hair, swarthy skin, nice eyes, nice smile and bit of stubble, I am still wonderful (on the inside)

[xxlizziexx]

very funny octavius, hehe. personly i like a guy that is honest, funny, buys me sweet little things, cooks!, tells me it will be ok when people take the mick out of me and loves me in every single way. this is coming from a 14 year old girl so i doubt it will be the same for some people! ooo and has to have stunning eyes!

[FP]

Like Long Blonde Hair and blue eyes, Nicola_Red, but don't like tattoos much.  Piercings are sort of OK - ears only (but thinking about piercings makes my knees turn to jelly and I feel faint).

 

I really like fair haired men with some stubble.  Fair haired but with a nice rugged complexion.  Not too thin, broad shouldered with a slightly wicked look.  Must be casually dressed - I must be one of the few who find's men in suits a turnoff.  Quite like the bloke who plays Charlie in Corrie, even if the hair's a bit dark. 

[FP]

Yes Lizzie, stunning eyes are very important!.  Preferably bright blue like Paul Newman's or the late Steve McQueen's, or Simon Gregson.

 

[FP]

Can't you tell from my postings that I'm one of those sad people that is addicted to Coronation Street?

[nicola_red]

So my double nose piercing and tongue and my bf's ear scaffold (a bar going through two parallel holes in the ear cartilage) wouldn't do it for you Fakeplastic? :-)

[FP]

It's not that I don't think they look nice, it's just that the very thought of punching holes through the flesh freaks me out, Nicola.  If I had a partner with a piercing I would keep thinking about those holes being punched.  If I hear about an ear getting ripped because an earring has been caught on something, I literally feel my knees giving way.

[nicola_red]

I never think about it like that...I find most piercings really sexy...been trying to persuade my bf to get his nipple done but he's not having any of it!

[FP]

thud..... that was me fainting!

[CiderMonkey]

nicola_red, sounds like we have similar taste in men..but i prefer darker hair. piercings and tatts are lovely, in my opinion!

[secretspirit]

I think you can only find someone really attractive when you know them. It's because a warm and honest person glows with the good qualities when you might not have thought them attractive when you first saw them and in the same way a person who isn't very nice shows it in their face as well and they can suddenly seem less attractive when you know them.

 

If you want a less deep answer - Brad Pitt!