So many things in my life need to change

[angel21]

it takes too long.........

Need more confidence/assertiveness skills
Need more money
Need own space and own place
Need some good girl friends
Need to improve relationships at work if poss
Need to get rid of ex

[angel21]

I do listen :-) trust me I do

I know what I need to do though so I'm really just moaning cus it takes too long and I need your support rather than advice really while I'm trying to change my life x

[CAJ1]

Hi Angel,

I've had many times when I've felt things take too long to change. I realised that dwelling on my past is not the way to move forward. The only way my life has changed is because I have made it, I had to face up to the past, accept it, put it behind me and move on. Life doesn't change without you making the effort, some things may be terribly hard but if you persevere you will get there. I think you know your ex is no good for you. Make a life plan of where you would like to be in 5 years, what job you would like, relationship status, friends etc. Then sit down and plan out the smaller steps of how you are going to acheive those goals. Good luck xx

[CAJ1]

By the way my saying on my calendar today is:

"What matters in life is not what you are but what you do."

[ummmm]

Ok...

Well think you need to try and work on number 1

Then lose the ex....hopefully the others will change in time.

[lil123]

Im going on a course in London that's about empowerment and positive thinking as I too need to change so much in my life.
It's gona cost me a bit but I need to move forward now.
You will make the changes as long as you set yourself goals and make it clear to yourself what you really want.
Good luck xx