Ahh thanks Crisgal, funny isnt it how you dont even know the people on here but there problems play on ur mind!
He has had a really bad week, several attacks a day, but thankfully he didnt have one yesterday or today, although today he said he didnt feel 100%, but I notice its when he has time to sit n think, im trying to keep his busy all the time, but its really difficult. I took him to the doctors and he has refered him to a child phsycologist, to help him to rationalise his fears about dying etc.
This has been a really stressful time for me and him, Ive remained strong for him throught the day, but as soon as he goes to sleep I end up crying (stress).
I have explained to him that he has been checked over at the doctors and that there is physically nothing wrong with him, and that it is all in his mind, and that he needs to gain control over it in order to get rid of it completely, I have explained today that he has managed nearly 2 days so far, and this is a big start to stopping it, you know, just to give him some encouragment and to try and make him stronger minded.....
I feel like im living on my nerves, althouh I try to keep that from him, im giving him lots of advice, reassurance and love, thats all I can do, the rest is down to him....its so hard.
Thans for thinking of him, thats very sweet of you xxx