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The Mysteries Of The Male Psyche
So two questions... 1. WHY?! and 2. Why does my current boyfriend not seem at all bothered by this.. even seems to find it amusing?!
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Would you prefer a boyfriend who sees your ex as the saddo he is? Or one who gets angry and leaps 10 foot in the air whenever your phone goes off?
I'd say the same as gypsy, change your number and appreciate the man you have, and don't spend any time even thinking about your ex - he obviously isn't worth it.
As a man, I can understand that splitting up from someone especially if it was the other person who does the splitting up, can be a very hard thing to cope with. It has a number of reasons, mainly the ego dent, then theres the disbelief that you could like someone else more and finally the fact that you had all these feelings for him and now he cant understand why they have all gone and makes himself believe that they arent all gone and that you will take him back. OR maybe he's just still angry and is just trying to annoy you and your new bloke, in which case your boyfriend is doing the right thing and just taking it as humerous. You should not reply, not acknowledge him and just go on as if nothing is happening. He will soon get bored. CONCLUSION : Your ex needs to let go and grow up.
Presumably you still have your ex-boyfriends number on your mobile to know its him?? You have made it clear to him? I think any response to him would be an encouragement (guys don't take hints well). So don't respond at all.
Anyway, as a bloke, I can't understand why anyone would send raunchy emails to their ex knowing that they are in a new relationship. However, your boyfriend is reacting exactly as I would - the ex is a wally and should be ignored until he goes away. If the 'harassment' continues further then change your number.
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