Hi Im 48 and have had all your symptoms since last October, been to the hospital had physio ct scan lumbar punctures and nothing showed up, also paid a chiropractor a fortune, it would improve for a week and then be back with a vengeance. I take ibuprofen sometimes all day because my headaches are quite severe especially in my temples, I have been scouring the internet and itseems that a lot of women seem to suffer with the same things around the time of menopause,althoughI tink you may be too young , i am sure this is what mine is down to. Anyway have u tried a heatwrap around your neck or movelat cream. Hope you get some relief from it soon let me know how u get on. The info i found was on power-surge.com if ur interested. x