Loss of confidence...

[whitbybabe]

Help ! Recently moved area, started a new job with my Husbands company, and have lost quite a bit of weight (which I needed to). I should be flying but for some reason my confidence has gone. I quit my other job in January and have spent the last three months working from home for my Husbands company. I have found this terribly lonely though as my son is at college all day and my family are now 30 miles away(we moved here to be nearer my hubbys work). I am now moving to work in premises with hubby and a few others and initially was looking forward to it, but I went to his office today and he was training me and I wouldn't even speak to people on the phone, which will be part of my job. He is a fantastic bloke and very patient and has told me I will be fine. So why am I doubting myself? I have worked in jobs with pressure and with the public for years and sailed through that, so I am now at a loss as to why I am like this? I met all his colleagues at a do recently and got on well with them so I really dont know whats wrong with me???

[Mamyalynne]

You have got in the doldrums and am sure you you will soon get back into the swing of things, we all doubt our abilitiys when we start something fresh. Getting up dressed and out of the house will give you back your confidence and you have the love and support of a good man. Enjoy your new job you will be great!

M

[Mamyalynne]

PS Get a couple of new sassy outfits to show off your new trim figure.

[tamborine]

A new environment among strangers....takes time to adjust to. You will find your niche where you shine and will be acknowledged; albeit by your OHs side at present.

[whitbybabe]

Thanks guys.