Thanks for adding some humour Tonyted!
Life is full of ups and downs and we seem to notice the downs more than the ups.I don't know why that is,some people are naturally optimistic and let nothing bother them,sailing through problems.
Others,like myself and you masma,always think others are better off/get an easier life/all the luck etc.
I don't have a solution,but you are not alone.
Try and find one thing good that happened today.
Same again tomorrow.
Have a moan here if it helps.