secrets

[nextqueen]

should have any secrets in a marriage and if so what kind would they be?

[4getmenot]

That you were once a man, could really ruin it

[Woody23]

That you have difficulty opening those pesky cat pouches.

[Greedyfly]

lol

[rowanwitch]

Ideally only little ones,, big ones tend to be a bit of a problem, Honey I secretly fancy your mates husband is a bit of a no no from your man, I like to watch Shaun the sheep when I get home from work early is probably ok

[bobjugs12]

Lol @ rowan.
My ex wife had some right corkers of secrets. I can laugh about it now though :)

[Greedyfly]

I tell my partner who I fancy/attracted to. He's secure enough to know I won't stray.

[society]

If a secret is exposed then it's no longer a secret. You have a secret then keep it to yourself.

[4getmenot]

I was told a secret by a mate who then said 'dont tell your bloke will you' and I said sorry but I tell him everything

[karenmac60]

When it's someone else's secret then it's really not your place to share it.

[joeluke]

Anyone who says they don't keep at least one secret from their OH is either lying or a saint

[daffy654]

My (slightly bonkers) oh asked me this morning what I would do if I found out he had been lying all these years and he was really a squirrel called Nutkins. pmsl :)

[ummmm]

I don't necessarily keep secrets but I don't reveal all either. Some thoughts and feelings are just private.

4get....anyone who doesn't want my fella to know their secret knows not to tell me.

[Jemisa]

I had a secret for years didn't tell anyone, my mother my best mate no one,
When I met my husband to be I felt as if I should tell him, What happened when I did tell him? - He burst out laughing, Now you know why I was reluctant to tell anyone.....
jem.

[my4ds]

i keep little secrets from oh.

i tell him everytime i see my very very old ex(27yrs ago)but we are very good mates now.

but i dont tell him when i see(as in bump into him on st) my other very very old ex as he knows theres unfinished business with him.he knows i will never ever stray .but why cause an argument for the sake of it.

[bednobs]

I have a secret running away fund. In the event of a disaster, or if i accidentally murdered him, or if he turned into a monster, i would have enough money to get myself out of the situation, or go on the run to rio!

[my4ds]

lol bednobs .

i also had a running away fund when i was with my ex.left him with £7000 in my pocket and no debts.best secret i ever had.

[bednobs]

it makes it sound like o don't trust him - i really do but you can never know another person 100% (most people don't even know themselves!)
Things can change - tha't why divorce was invented!