Hi prendi,sounds like it,i had a chemical menopause,and it seemed overnight that my body aged,my bones ached,as you said even in your fingers and toes,skin started thinning,hair went doolally,memory loss,etc etc,mine was different as it was induced,no one can say how long it will last as everyone is different,i had hot flushes,but not on the scale as some have suffered,i think because i kept myself fit,i didnt have them all over my body,just my face,i occasionally get the odd one,can empathise with you...