ow sweetie, i really feel for you, he sounds like an idiot. Taking the pill sea calp is really good for helping your hair grow fast, my friend started losing her hair and after a few months of taking it, it looked better than ever. You can get it from Holland and barrett for just a few pounds. I find that when i put mascara on every day, after a few weeks they don't look as thick, so maybe do what i do and only put it on for special occasions and use an eye liner instead on a day to day basis. I'm not sure if this really helps but i put a little bit of vaseline on my eye lashes at night, i got the tip from a tv program, it's meant to help them grow longer and thicker, I don't know if you'll see any reasults but it's worth a try i guess. Also have you tried doing something like pilates or dancing to de stress you? that might help. Take care sweeetie xx