Hi there,
There's a guy I work with - he's really nice, and have picked up some signs he likes me. He smiles at me across the room, loiters around our office speaking to my colleagues a lot, but will talk to me individually as well. When he does, he acts really edgy around me and will stare at me then look away. In group situations, he will talk and show off to everyone else but me - he will bearly look at me, but have noticed him sneaking a look when he thinks I am not looking. Me and a group of colleagues and him went out for a few drinks recently - me and him ended up sitting next to each other - he was edgy at first, but once he relaxed his body language was more 'open' towards me and he directed his conversation towards me a bit more. He was starting to edge closer and we had some banter between us - he even touched my leg accidentally (although it could have been on purpose!) but he didn't flinch. The next day he bumped into me at the office and asked what time I left that night. He said he enjoyed the night and it was really good company. I said I'd see him later, and he said 'you sure will'. I think he's picked up that I like him too, I feel I go red every time I see him. He always seems to be loitering around our office - even when I go near his office he'll be around loitering talking to other people in front of me.
Please advise - what you do think?
Thank you xx
He may well like you, but feel you are inapproachable. Smile at him, talking to him whilst making eyecontact and be really relaxed. Leave the rest up to him.