You see something, you want to achieve something, you work hard to eventually achieve it, this has nothing to do with happiness, it is all to do with achievement and should be admired and not envied.
In my opinion 80% of people live beyond their means.......overdrawn, borrowing money, credit card overload...........it is the modern way of life for the majority.
If there is nothing that you want to own or achieve, that is find, but other people may have and are prepared to work for them......good on them too.
It is human to talk about your achievements and suppress or hide you failures.