Should I Send This Card Or Not?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Think about what you want from a man and if this guy cannot give you what you want, then there is no reason why you cannot find a man who can. From what you've said, he doesn't sound like he has much to offer you. It's unfortunate he has issues but I know what its like to get involved with someone like that. They usually drag you down with them. You need to be with someone who inspires you and makes you feel good otherwise there's no point. I don't believe we have to be involved with people in order to 'fix' them or to live in hope of them changing. Sounds like he needs to sort himself out before getting into a relationship with anyone. You sound like a caring person and he could be taking advantage of that but you need to put yourself first.
It sounds to me that you do not want to decide your own position until you know what his position is. It may be because he has previously hurt your feelings or maybe not. Do you think that he can sense your middle of the road stance and is holding back himself waiting for you to declare your feelings first.
It seems to me that if you wait for each other you will be waiting a long time. You must decide, on what you know, whether or not this is the man for you. If he is then tell him and ask for a candid response in return. Good luck.