This is going to sound a really odd question....

[icemaiden]

but, how do you vent your anger on someone who has died recently?

Brief explanation. Close member of family died a few weeks ago and I have since found out that they lived a double life, literally!. Family, kids, houses etc. Also they have racked up some huge debts which will mean selling of house to pay off.

How does one deal with the anger that you would normally release by having it out with them?

[zzxxee]

shame they were not cremated , you could of sprinkled their down the loo !!

[masma]

I know it's easier said than done (I've been in a similar position) but don't waste your energy on him, he's not worth it. Put your energy into helping the ones that are left to pick up the pieces.

[icemaiden]

He he! @ zzzxee.