First date....

[tinkerbell23]

If a girl "does it" on the first date....is she not a "keeper?
Same with girls who are "forward"?..

I had this discussion with a male friend earlier....he didnt seem to mind the first date kind! (typical LOL) but didnt think the forward girls who asked him out etc in bars were the wife sort! Xx

[craft1948]

I've no idea................things have changed a lot since my dating days.

[pa___ul3]

I'd say no she's not a keeper, I like to feel like Ive earned it!!
And moreover, Id only sleep with her on the first date if I thought she wasn't a keeper, just a dabble.

[prendy91]

it depends dun it sex is good and hu dont like it so why not have it on a first date just cuz u have summin u love on the first night dont mean it wont work xx

[tamborine]

who cares ...... not everyone wants to be a wife, especially to a neanderthal MCP

[tinkerbell23]

Know what u mean pink..

Just we were having this chat and i said i prefer to b asked out by a guy...no way would i ask a man out cos id b embarrased and i feel like i leave it all to the male! But my guy mate says that rarely would he ask someone and we got on to girls asking guys for a phone num etc or a date...

So i probs asked two separate questions there....
1: thoughts on girls asking guys out
2: thoughts on sex on 1st date.....

I know people who are married who had it on the first night paul but i kno what u mean x

[society]

I think a girl who puts out on the first day make herself look 'easy', and I could just imagine guys would think "wow, does she put out to every guy on the first date?"

[prendy91]

awwwwwwwwwwwwww tamborines a *** thn eh

[tinkerbell23]

Yeah prendy i see ur point. I know like craft said that times have changed.....so should you say no...or think oh hell only live once ?! X

[tamborine]

wots that prendy........You being starred out already ?

[pa___ul3]

I'd be more inclined to think like society i think, although i think i just like the chase as well.
Girls asking men out i have no qualms with at all, ive been asked out a few times, probably more than vice versa cus I was always a bit of a wimp with that!

[prendy91]

wel done my son its al down too how u both conect

[tinkerbell23]

It does look easy dosent it......i couldnt ask a guy in a bar out or whatever.... X

[squarebear]

It's equally as hard for some guys to ask girls in a bar too. I used to be shy back in the day.

[pa___ul3]

i worked behind a bar as well for 10 years so i'd have the perfect opportunity, I'd flirt forever but never have the balls to ask them. even with my gf now I got her mate ( a mutual firend) to suss her out first!

[craft1948]

The daughter asked her current boyfriend out, they appear to still be happy 8 months down the line.

[anneasquith]

would the replies be similar if girl said boy ?

[tinkerbell23]

Pink i did once via text and it wasnt a NO out and out....but it was more or less a no lol nothing ever came but i was pleased with myself for asking i actualy didnt feel at all bad hahahahahaha

I dont have a prob with either...either! Lol....but i couldnt stand in a bar and ask a guy out.....

Square u hav same point as my mate and hs a good looking guy aswell - i suppose its left upto guys to ask isnt it. In this day n age! X

[prendy91]

course its not equal just like when a girl sleps about then she is a *** but if a guy does he is a legend its not right