rekindled love

[chirpychirpy]

have you or anyone you know ever managed to rekindle a cooled romance and, if so, how?

[Sqad]

No.........never.

[Postdog]

If it cools, there's a reason - accept it and don't go back cos it will never be the same

[ummmm]

Yes...it depends on the reason why it's cooled. Things in life can make us detach...but if there is still love there it can be rekindled if both parties put the effort in.

[tinkerbell23]

Yeah....and it just kind of happened....then ended again.....twice....doh! Lol x

[Cockney_si]

It does definately depend on the circumstances....

[Lonnie]

When courting, my girlfriend and I broke up, wet our seperate ways, that was for a couple of years, we've been happily married now for almost Thirty Three years, so yes, all depending on the reason of the split, you can go back.

[coccinelle]

It is often circumstances or people around a couple which cause the split; not the actual couple. If these problems are solved then yes, the couple can find where they were before. These problems can be step children, in-laws, money, unemployment etc

[NOX]

Not yet but i'm working on it:-)

[help-me-please]

Personally I think it's dependent on the circumstances before the split and the circumstances to which both people now find themselves in. Very bad break ups shouldn't even attempt a second retrial. When it's tainted, from bad reasons, it won't ever be the same & the spark and chemistry just won't go back to normal. Trivial break ups, perhaps, stand chance of working it out! Sometimes people need to break to appreciate and realise what they have. Perhaps a separation shows the grass isn't always greener. Is infidelity or cheating was the reason behind it, NEVER, trust will never fully be amended. No matter how hard you want or try, it's always there at te back of ur mind. I don't believe in second chances personally. Good luck

[starone]

You can have rows and make it up - it is quite nice the making up part but if it is a really bad split it might be difficult.