Affair..

[sluggy]

Please don't judge me. I know I did wrong but Ive been married for 12 yrs and about 7 yrs ago I got chatting to another married woman online. We live some distance apart but despite this we grew very close and we eventually met up and slept together. Our relationship continued online but we didn't meet again. Eventually it seemed to naturally fizzle out until a couple of years ago when I found her again on facebook. We still talk to each other on there now and again but its not as intense as before. However I still have strong feelings for her and she has told me they are mutual but the it's the distance between us that's a stumbling block. I really want to move on but I just can't get this other woman out my mind. Please don't tell me to concentrate on my marriage because I've tried that. My wife and I do enjoy each others company and we do love each other. I've even taken up hobbies and pastimes and thrown myself into my work to take my mind off her but she's still in my mind all the time. Deep down I know there is no future with this other woman but it's driving me crazy I don't know what to do??

[lcg]

married for 12 years...girlfriend obsessed with a celeb...and only 27. what a full life you lead, eh?

[chattykathy]

How liberating is that!!!!!!

[boxtops]

Do I hear the sounds of trip, trap, trip, trap....?

[murraymints]

mmmmm...!!! Who is a naughty ABER Sluggy ?

[TTG]

Ask your wife to learn the skills of Silvia Saint. When she has done this and shows you want she has learnt, you will instantly forget about the other woman.

[Dee Sa]

how would you like it if the boot was on the other foot and your wife was hankering after someone else ? you wouldnt like it would you ? she actually deserves better than a snake like you, I hope she reads this and realises its from her very own husband and she throws you out.