I have a friend who is now 60 and still single for the past 20 years she has always gone for the head waiter in whatever complex/country she has gone for a holiday and she will hang around for hours waiting for them to finish work,it doesnt make sense to me none of them have ever contacted her afterwards, once we went to Malta and she asked that we go and sort some poor bloke [ head waiter] out and give him a message ! of course we never did and she goes on & on about them,silly moo.
As for these elderly women who go to the Gambia and bring back a much younger husband - sorry they deserve everthing they get, I havent got one ounce of sympathy for any of them.