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I snooped and found something. Now what to do?
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I'm 18, been with my boyfriend for 6 months. I've always been insecure because off my ex's used to text/chat online to women while with me. My current boyfriend has been amazing, treated me so well but I've accused him of doing what my ex's did to me. So, he gave me his password to facebook to show he's got nothing to hide etc. I snooped and found a stupid dating application on facebook, that said he'd logged into recently, so I told him and he said he must have been on it by accident etc. I wasn't happy and checked it again and found that he'd pressed 'like' on two girls. No messages etc just that. I feel hurt and shakey. I don't know what to do ?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.babe face it, this dont look good. On your behalf, you accused him before you had passwords from him. Which shows lack of trust. You shouldnt be with anyone you do not feel you can fully trust. There will be a guy out there that you can actually trust and when you meet him, deep down you will know. However, since now that you have found something, will you ever trust him? I doubt it. Trust takes years to build, seconds to break. I doubt he was on accidently. You cant log in accidently. I feel these small problems you have may only esculate into problems bigger in the future. Like he has no space or privacy and in the end will get sick of the constant quizzing and checking up. Maybe you know deep down you cannot trust this guy & you need to search for someone who will not make you feel the need to check up. I know from my own experiences. Maybe you should concentrate on your issues and learn to have self confidence. Put it this way, if any guy cheats on you? well he's lost you & you? hes done you a favour! Good Luck x
I think you need to just calm down and relax- this is stupid Facebook not real life. this is a disassociated thing and he's been very fair and given you access to his private account, so clearly he dosn't feel he has anything to hide. If there is one thing guaranteed to drive anyone away it's cloying insecurity and constant mistrust- from what you've said he's done nothing wrong other than rate a couple of girls on a silly website- so stop panicking and learn to enjoy your relationship without suspicion.
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