If you dont have sex with your husband do you assume that he is taking care of things himself ??

[happyone2]

Hi.......... i was wondering, if a couple dont have much of a sex life or none at all.............does this mean that neither of the couple pleasure them selves .....Do both assume that the other is or isnt on their own ( or presumably with somebody else )

I ask, because a friend of mine makes love to his girlfriend once every couple of months and assumes she knows that he does it alone ........... i didnt know if that assumption could be taken as read.

[ummmm]

Masturbation is not about love.....you should know that Sqad.

[Sqad]

ummmm...fine.....replace love with "satisfactory"

[Safiya]

masturbation is not about satisfactory? not sure that makes sense

[ummmm]

What are you trying to say Sqad? People in a healthy, loving, relationship don't masturbate?

[snags]

''masturbation is about cracking one out over your aunty''

Not literally I hope... I know family gatherings can be tedious but still...

[Safiya]

LOL

[snags]

You got a hot Aunt then? Email a pic as soon as...

[Sqad]

safiya...ummmm questions the "love" not being necessary for masturbation in my previous post....so i will rephrase:

.that our CB females have "loving " and satisfactory relationships........why do they need to masturbate

As sentence above, but cut out "love."

[Ankou]

are you just asking this so you can get all smiutty sqad ?

[Sqad]

Ankou.....if you like.

[Ankou]

i wouldn't want to shatter all the masturbational fantasies i have of our female associates on ab, by hearing the reality.

some things are best left unsaid.

[ummmm]

Same reason that men do Sqad.

[jackthehat]

Is the general consensus that men are bigger t*****s than women......?!?

I'm surprised it took so long to reach that conclusion :o)

[berniecuddles]

trigger=class lol pmsl m8

[Ankou]

trigs, in my craking off sessions, you are the girl.

[snags]

''I'm surprised it took so long to reach that conclusion''

Better than being premature...

[Safiya]

ah i substituted in the wrong sentence...apologies

so you think that women who have loving very sexually satisfying relationships shouldnt need to masturbate?

what about if say the woman is home, her partner is not home, the woman fancies a bit, should she wait until he/she gets home or sort herself out? cant see as many people would be allowed out of work for an hour if they get a phone call that their OH is feeling a bit randy