ok, Nauhty Naughty......but now what????

[puma86]

So you look through your partners phone (naughty naughty) and find a text saying "It's ok. I took her for a long walk earlier, let me know when you're next going xx".
This is from a person whom you partner had a BIG crush on for years, eventually slept together, and then stopped talking.
Out of the blue, after your relationship had started they get back in touch and have very cheeky, flirty texts back and forth for some time. You found out and said it had to stop, and as far as you were aware it had. 2years later it seems they have met up at least once walking the dogs together in the woods quite far from both their homes.
What would you do?

[Old_Geezer]

Not have looked through their texts in the first place.

But since you've already done that you're first decision is whether to admit it or not. Personally I don't think I'd want to show myself in that light so would concentrate on what can be done to improve the relationship between me and my partner so they didn't feel the need to meet up with old flames. But I can understand some wanting a blazing row instead.

In fairness it may not be more than a chat but obviously it isn't on to be doing this behind your back.

Difficult. I think I'd play it softly softly until there is more than a snooped at text to go on.

[joggerjayne]

Sell the dog.

[tamborine]

throw out the dog's food

[Sqad]

Perhaps the dogs are having an affair......

[Ankou]

suggest at the last minute that you both take the dog for walkies, and see if he uses his mobile.

[spam_face]

that doesn't sound good :-( i'd do what someone else suggested go in a friends car that hopefully he wont recognise and follow them...

[puma86]

Oh no, sorry, this is not about me.
My love life is hunky dorey at the moment lol.

I understand your thinking OldG, but wouldn't you have preferred to know than not? It's a toughie ay!?

Personally I would do either Trime's or ankou's suggestions.

[daisya]

Oh JJ you creased me up with your answer, definitely the best humorous answer I've read today! pmsl rofl

[columbus]

hire a hitman

[jackthehat]

I think Ankou's suggestion is the best.
You will then be able to confront him/her in the privacy of your own home.

[puma86]

oh, ankou. forgot to ask, what would you do after???
i.e. he is about to leave, you say "i'll come with you" and he then texts. Then what?

[WELSHYORKIE]

What Ankou said !!

[puma86]

how JTH

leap out and say 'ah ha' when he starts texting? :o)

[puma86]

ha ha ha eddie