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Should I go?
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There is a fella near me who's very friendly and has been asking me out since my hubby left in June. He says he just wants to be friends but Im wary and I feel its too soon. Should I go out with him just for a quiet drink? TIA.
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Go for a quick drink, somewhere public, the pub or a bar, but decline any offers of going back to his place or anything if you do go.
Before you go say that you hope this is just a friendly drink as you dont feel ready to move on yet and you are enjoying being single at the moment and are re evaluating yourself, but you are happy to have a drink. He might be just being friendly but if its more ask him, it wont hurt and will avoid alot of explaining from you at a later date-but dont lose out on a potential friend he might turn out to be very a nice person
Before you go say that you hope this is just a friendly drink as you dont feel ready to move on yet and you are enjoying being single at the moment and are re evaluating yourself, but you are happy to have a drink. He might be just being friendly but if its more ask him, it wont hurt and will avoid alot of explaining from you at a later date-but dont lose out on a potential friend he might turn out to be very a nice person
If you want to go, just as friends Chinadog, i really don't see why you shouldn't. Like I said, as long as you make it crystal clear its just as friends. You'd think nothing of going out with a girl as a mate to the pub would you? Think of him as the same, 'cept with dangy bits (that you won't be fiddling with!)
You must think he's not half bad if you're asking whether or not to go, so...
I'd say go and have a couple of drinks and say you have to be away for 10 ish.
Somewhere public and local, unless you're worried about tongues wagging in which case you could go a little further afield, but still stay 'public'.
Won't harm, will it?
I'd say go and have a couple of drinks and say you have to be away for 10 ish.
Somewhere public and local, unless you're worried about tongues wagging in which case you could go a little further afield, but still stay 'public'.
Won't harm, will it?