The first argument

[tinkerbell23]

Of a new relationship...

Makes you feel quite crappy dosent it ..lol xxx

[karenmac60]

Ach you'll both get over it - and the first 'make up' can be great fun ;)

Good to hear you're back in the game Tinks x

[tinkerbell23]

I hope i am!!!

We did make up lol...trying to just put it out of my head though. X

[Sqad]

karen:

Phew!!! I thought you said

\\Good to hear you're back ON the game Tinks x\\\\

[tinkerbell23]

Rofl i dont get a job soon ill have to be on the game LOL xxx

[flump1]

Hi Tinks,
I am of the non-confrontational group so I avoid arguments where ever possible , however I do miss out on the making up bit !! I hope you get over this lil spat xxx

[tinkerbell23]

Well i still stayed and had a loovely day the next day.

Trying not to read into it and just put it behind LOL xxx

[Leapers]

The first argument certainly does make you feel crappy especially if you are quite drunk and suddenly start shouting accusations at him (which were never realistically true) which were more your own insecurities than accusations! But luckily some guys are just quite understanding and forgiving!

[Wharton]

My wife doesn't understand me.
I'm a nuclear scientist.

[looobylooo]

Aw Tinks.... I'm sorry to hear there's been a little tiff....
and yeah.... it does make you feel a bit.. no not a bit, but Alot crappy!
Was it over something silly? - as they mostly are..
Try and not to fret too much, hard I know.. but it'll blow over, you see xx

[tinkerbell23]

Yeah silly silly an we had a lovvvvvvely day next day.

Must admit im still abit upset that it happened. Just hope its not ruined things. X

[rowanwitch]

How they react in episodes of conflict tells you a lot about them did he sulk/fly off the handle/walk away/clam up and not discuss it/behave like an adult and talk things through...

[tinkerbell23]

Nope wasnt shouting ... And because i was upset he said he didnt want to see me upset and gave me a cuddle... Till i got mascara all over him lol.... Xx

[rowanwitch]

not a bad start then

[tinkerbell23]

He wouldnt ever shout or swear (i would)

He seen it as a "debate" really where as i got upset :0/ doh.

Im still annoyed that it happened. Guess thats just normal.

Xx

[ummmm]

I don't remember our first argument. I'm sure I won it though :-)