After Years Together, And Then You Realize You Never Really Knew Him.

[arwyn]

Let down again with another massive issue in which he never backed me.
I can't respect him these times.. He has never backed me up in anything.
Has anyone had anything similar? Is the only answer to split up?

[arwyn]

Jordain that's so sweet that finally you found happiness, I too hope you have many more years. Thank you for sharing your story.

My first 14 year marriage ended when he was having a 2year affair (unknown to me) he couldn't handle the stress anymore and never had the bottle to tell me. So he made my life hell for 6 month so I'd leave him.

This marriage has been going on 17 years and after googling the diagnosis from old geezer, I think it's it the nail on the head.

[arwyn]

old geeza I'm reading up on the diagnoses and it fits him like a glove.. He would never agree as that's one of the symptoms ha ha.

Thank you everyone for your help xxx

[Dee Sa]

Arwyn this man has no love or respect for you or he would not do these hurtful things to you, get your f-in-l round sit him down with hubby and tell him the truth about all these things and if he still wont back you its time to part company, to leave you on your own whilst recovering from a stroke is unforgiveable you would be better off on your own. You deserve better.

[curlyperm11]

You asked the question at 21.00 hours on Oct 6th and at 21.10 you typed Thanks for your advice

Maybe your impatience has an affect on your 'relationship'?
Two sides an' all that

[gness]

Most of us will have read that as a forgotten sign off to the original post, Curlyperm.

[boxtops]

That's how I read it...

[curlyperm11]

Dont know what you mean gness?

And how come "most of us"? It was merely an observation

[Psybbo]

Or to bump it up to latest posts

[boxtops]

It doesn't really matter anyway.