Something Someone Said.. Opinion

[tinkerbell23]

How would you take this.....

Me standing emptying todays shopping bags after takeaway dinner

Emptied out some christmas gifts and decorations

Other person says out the blue "i thought you said yesterday you were sticking to your diet"

Me..... Feels very angry!!!

Feels like said person has took a look at me and thought ive put the weight on?

Or am i being sensitive? ...... Im super annoyed

Opinion pls x

[Baldric]

///Emptied out some christmas gifts and decorations///

Were they edible?

[EDDIE51]

Does the diet include 'takeaway' dinner? ( they are notorious for being high cal)

[Prudie]

Depends, were they looking at you or what you were emptying out of the shopping bags? Never the best thing to say to anyone :-)

[Tilly2]

You talking about your OH, Tinks?

[tinkerbell23]

No the bag contents were NOT edible!!!!!

Yes the takeaway was a chippy and so NOT on the diet but who cares ... And it was long gone a few hours ago! X

[Retrochic]

No I would be annoyed. If its your girlfriend then I would take it as a jibe -a bit of a laugh -if its your OH I would be angry as it seems judgmental. They could be just teasing you though. If you do feel angry then maybe there is an underlying tension? Best tell them how you feel.

[tinkerbell23]

Retro...... I saw red!!!

There were raised voices because i said "where did that effing come from!!!!"

[Peter Pedant]

Let it go ....

by the way I think you have a fat bum ....

[tinkerbell23]

Peter.... I do!!!! Lol

[Gavmacp]

Not wishing to be a psychoanalyst, are you hearing your mother?

[Retrochic]

I wouldn't let it go to be honest but that's just me. You going on or off your diet is your choice - you do not need reminding. I would buy a huge bar of chocolate and eat it in front of him ( I am presuming this is your OH) in a really sexy mannerk, - then when he gets worked up say " oh no way mate why would you want to sh+g a fat bird lol!

[woofgang]

Well its certainly a rude and thoughtless comment. Coming out of the blue, particularly so.....also to me coming out of the blue, it sounds a bit creepy and controlling, not full on red lights and sirens but definitely a little alarm bell.

[tinkerbell23]

I dont think so gav!!!!!

Jeez id give her a run for her money when i kick off lol...that part of my life is much much MUCH improved thankfully!!!!

Xxxx

[tinkerbell23]

Pmsl retro good idea!!!!!!!!

Thoughtless comment... Exactly! Does NOT think one bit before openinh mouth and was almost laughing like it was a joke... But cos it came from nowhere i just blew up!!!

Its payday..... I like a takeaway on payday.... Lol x

[Peter Pedant]

// Not wishing to be a psychoanalyst, are you hearing your mother?//

not - - - - Not wishing to be a psychoanalyst, are THEY hearing your mother?

[EDDIE51]

I still just think it is a comment about your ' chippy' lunch when you had said you were sticking to the diet.

[Mamyalynne]

Not a particularly nice thing to hear -but if I had said yesterday I was sticking to my diet, I think I may have pre empted the situation with 'Yay, had a feast today, it's pay day after all'.

[-SharonA-]

I get this from hubby, a lot and in jest. I don't let it bother me. But sometimes depending my mood, I get annoyed.

[tinkerbell23]

Mabye if i was mid ordering the takeaway then i could get it..... Even tho id have still been mad....

Like two hours later not so much.

I really did get mad.

Whoops. X

[tinkerbell23]

I just said why did you say that out of nowhere? And where did that come from!!?

No reply...., lol likely sensing me about to erupt!!!!! Saying im off to bed etc. LOL!!!! X