Body & Soul1 min ago
Going Out To Watch A Show With Female Friend
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Hi my boyfriend has had this female friend for a very long time till he met me. According to him in the past she tried him on n told him that she liked him. But according to him, he refused her because he saw (still sees) her a best mate only. They apparently often went to watch shows together. Few months ago she bought them (for her and him) tickets to watch a gig. I asked my boyfriend whether he would still go with her alone without taking me with him. I told him i dont feel comfortable that my boyfriend would go to a show with a female friend. He tried to convince me that there will be nothing to worry about because he is not interested in her. Should i believe him and let him go to a gig with her alone?
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Have just got a response from him that he is not going to that gig with her. He said it is not right for him to go to a gig alone with another female person eventhough that person is his mate while he is in relationship. I asked how he refused to go with her. He said he told her that I would be in hospital having surgery around that date so not possible for him to go to a show with her. Why did he have to lie like that to refure to go? Why did he not tell the truth to her?
\\\\Should i believe him and let him go to a gig with her alone?\\\
You can't stop him.
What do you want out of this relationship and are you getting it?
If you want a partner, boyfriend, whatever they call themselves these days, who doesn't lie, is faithful and devotes his time to you...then forget it.......they don't exist.
Either dump him or carry on with the relationship.......which to me doesn't sound too abnormal.
You can't stop him.
What do you want out of this relationship and are you getting it?
If you want a partner, boyfriend, whatever they call themselves these days, who doesn't lie, is faithful and devotes his time to you...then forget it.......they don't exist.
Either dump him or carry on with the relationship.......which to me doesn't sound too abnormal.
In the best relationships trust is important as is space. There may be things that you like that your bf does not and vice versa - would you have gone to that gig if he wasnt going or expect him to go to something you like but he doesnt. It all comes down to trust so you have to ask yourself that question.
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