True Love

[dsvd]

How do you know if you are in the right place if you are still sitting on the fence and undecided longing for True Love at the same time?

I like a work colleague more than I should and know she although unmarried has a partner. I fall apart when I am around her, but I can't get her out of my head like the Daniel Beddingfield song "If your not the one..."

Good Luck answering this !

[woofgang]

she has a partner. Look elsewhere.

[Old_Geezer]

She has a partner. Stay away.

The Daniel Beddingfield song is describing a naive and mentally backward adolescent who questions why, if he wants something it isn't automatically his. A few moments considering the situation in a sweetshop and wanting everything should have convinced that individual that wanting doesn't mean should be getting.

[Arksided]

'Never rub another mans rhubarb' It's hard for me to say this but the truth is, if she fancied you or even love you... She'd have let you know.

Daniel Beddingfield... hmmm ok

[Mozz71]

Sorry, this isn't "If You're Not The One", this is James Blunt's "You're Beautiful": an infatuation with someone you can't have. Walk away or you're going to look stupid.

[DeeLicious]

I don't agree with the above responses. You don't know how happy she is with her partner. She might be looking to leave that relationship. She might long for you too. I recommend you find quiet circumstances (away from inquisitive eyes and ears) in which to ask her out, and see what she says. Even if she says no, at least you then know where you stand and you can stop wasting your thoughts on her. If you say nothing, you might meet up again many years from now and, on admitting you once had a thing for her, she could say "I wish you'd told me at the time...I was in a really unhappy relationship....I really fancied you but had no idea you were interested....but now I'm married with kids." No time like the present. Go ask her....and please let us know how you get on.

[Old_Geezer]

That James Blunt one is woefully short of being a finished piece too. First he has a plan, then he doesn't know what to do, and in the end his angel is smiling because he's never going to see his fancied stranger again ?!?!

[thesshhh]

Go for it, man! Otherwise you’ll never know....