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If An Insecure/flawed Man Gets Offered To Be In A Relationship With A Woman He Is Actually In Love With, Should He Risk Going Through With It Or Should He Reject The Offer So The Relationship Won't Blow Up In His Face?
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This is admittedly a follow-up to this thread I made earlier:https://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/ChatterBank/Question1692967.html
But I wanted to ask this separately to help the males in this situation know what to do if he is actually offered to be in a relationship right in front of him and he has to answer at that moment.
Should he say no to avoid the risk of the relationship exploding in his face (shrinking his self-esteem even more), or should he risk it all and say yes?
But I wanted to ask this separately to help the males in this situation know what to do if he is actually offered to be in a relationship right in front of him and he has to answer at that moment.
Should he say no to avoid the risk of the relationship exploding in his face (shrinking his self-esteem even more), or should he risk it all and say yes?
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As a reminder, here are the some of the flaws that a male can have (be it one/some/all of these things listed):
If that person was known for having airhead/idiotic tendencies,
- Grew up with any speech/mental disabilities or obstacles,
- Does not have the luxuries to live a normal adult life (license, car, job, money, house) and is not able to physically attract folks because of not having these luxuries and no being considered good-looking
- Was never incredibly popular in School because they did not have the skills in any popular major (for example, sports or music),
- Doesn't listen to the music that happens to be considered "the cool thing" for everyone else and instead listens to the music that would get them bullied, and that individual isn't physically and mentally strong and/or capable of defending themselves for any assault
If that person was known for having airhead/idiotic tendencies,
- Grew up with any speech/mental disabilities or obstacles,
- Does not have the luxuries to live a normal adult life (license, car, job, money, house) and is not able to physically attract folks because of not having these luxuries and no being considered good-looking
- Was never incredibly popular in School because they did not have the skills in any popular major (for example, sports or music),
- Doesn't listen to the music that happens to be considered "the cool thing" for everyone else and instead listens to the music that would get them bullied, and that individual isn't physically and mentally strong and/or capable of defending themselves for any assault
Prudie for goodness sake if I'd said that I'd been banned....The poor guy obviously has huge mental challenges and your comment is anything but helpful!!
OP you are over thinking the situation. Go on a date and see what happens, be prepared that nothing may come of the date, but if it does then take every day as it comes and don't over think things. Asking a health professional for some counselling on building up your self confidence would be a good idea - love finds everyone eventually but you have to have confidence and love yourself before anyone else. Good Luck.
OP you are over thinking the situation. Go on a date and see what happens, be prepared that nothing may come of the date, but if it does then take every day as it comes and don't over think things. Asking a health professional for some counselling on building up your self confidence would be a good idea - love finds everyone eventually but you have to have confidence and love yourself before anyone else. Good Luck.
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