is it right?

[w.h.y.?]

to live without passion,disire,trust,lust,exitement,,butterflies in your belly,charm,affection, for the sake of what is to be belived as a feeling of love?

[Roughquest]

Its not right, but one may get accused of being too 'heavy' lol.

[w.h.y.?]

think im just fed up,wanted a moan,the last thing before bed..dishes,first thing in the morning..laundry,a spontanious phone call..whats for dinner,mundane i also think i should proberly get a dictionary

[counsellor]

Know how you feel w.h.y i feel the same, i sometime wish i could stop the world turning and go and find ronan keating for a quicky then start it up again and no-one would know!

[sleepyj]

i must be thick i dont understand this

[Llamatron]

I don't think it's right.
One just feels empty.

[liquidspace]

Thats what Im going thru - my partner seems to want a platonic relationship rather than an affectionate one. Its very difficult to live without touch, kisses, cuddles, sex etc. even if the partner says he cares about you, I think it needs to be demonstrated.

[noxlumos]

100% people need physical affection and excitement, otherwise you might just as well have moved in with your best friend from junior school.
Sex as a stand alone thing can be shallow, but so can love, sometimes it all just fades away and then one day you wake up and even love has done a bunk then you are left with s0d all.Talk to your partner and explain, if he can't understand then start looking imho.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, thats like asking, is it right just to sell non alcoholic beer...

[RATTER15]

MrBen5, wash your mouth out, that's a dreadful thing to suggest!!

[w.h.y.?]

i must agree with RATTER15 thats an awfull suggestion,if i had of known that i was going to bring alcohol fr** beer in with my question id of never asked,and just carried on with my never ending cleaning and what feels like waitresing/chef/accountant,love free life!!!

[generationga]

absolutley

[1kayvee]

No it's not right, and it's probably not love to be honest. I have been there and done that, and felt as you do. If it were love it wouldn't feel like that. Are you happy to feel like that for the forseeable future? Don't think so!! I got out , and although single, which isn't brilliant, I'd rather be on my own and fairly happy, than stuck in a relationship thats going nowhere fast. You do deserve better, and I hope one day you find true love. (Hope I do too!!)