Whatever love is?

[Roughquest]

Some of you may have read my posts on here re my bf.
Well, we have been talking lots and I mean talking - not texting, which has been really good. He has told me that he is in love with me, he has been since he met me, he is also talking about marriage....I am rather scared to be honest, I do like him very much indeed, miss him etc etc, but is it possible to be in love with someone after only a few weeks? Surely its infatuation ? I care about him a lot and I know that my feelings are already running quite deep for him too....

[China Doll]

I would say that you can't love someone after only a few weeks of knowing them and that at this stage it's lust and infatuation..... However, as has been pointed out I'm not much of a romanticist and I know there are a lot of people on here who have admitted to falling in love with their partners within days or indeed at first sight so I guess it must depend on the person....

I'd say just do what feels right for you.

[marley2000]

i think you can fall within weeks but i think to really know someone and commit to someone you have to be with them a longer time. of course you can get to know someone but to really, really know them i think you need to live with them and be around them for a long time. you discover news things even after years. feelings are often intense at the beginning but you shouldn't rely on that, wait until you know each other better and see if you are still not bored! xxx

[sallycroc]

How do you get away from texting...I'm finding it difficult...which my man would call me!