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Im fried
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Nearly 3 months ago, met a guy younger than I (15 years younger than me), works away n the week but lives locally to me, sometimes comes home at weekends, (he isnt married) reckons he has a high powered job, he refused to tell me his age as he was worried it would put me off him which it didnt, anyhoo, has kept in touch text phone etc, telling me he loves me and all that, as time went by, asked my salary, which I thought odd, wanted to move in with me, told me he owned a house, which I suggested we both sell our houses and look for somewhere together, he agreed, he wanted to put the money into some investments for both of us, made it clear he wanted to marry me next year. Also asked about setting up a joint bank account together, I thought he was kidding at first but he kept assuring me he was totally committed, and I started to relax to the idea and was feeling overjoyed about our future together. Now, last weekend he went away on business, drinking binge etc, not much contact from him other than a text telling me how many more hours drinking he has left ??? When he arrived at his destination friday he text me saying he loved and missed me loads, anway i got to thinking that he had never told me his address of his own house, after asking many times, he never replied, and now since sunday no contact from him whatsoever no matter how much I have asked him what's wrong. Is he a conman do you think? Have I been made a complete fool of here? Meanwhile I am in love with him and really need to see him so we can talk. But he continues to ignore me. (I have tried my best to stop thinking bad things about him as any of my friends who met him thought he was just lovely!)
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I really cant thank you enough for your advice, B4userach wasnt much good, but I will try your other suggestion and let you know what happens. This guy is supposed to be coming to see me this weekend, but Im not holding my breath, but if he does appear, I am going to be grilling him that is for sure. :)
RQ xxxx
I really cant thank you enough for your advice, B4userach wasnt much good, but I will try your other suggestion and let you know what happens. This guy is supposed to be coming to see me this weekend, but Im not holding my breath, but if he does appear, I am going to be grilling him that is for sure. :)
RQ xxxx