what do i do ?

[charlotte247]

ok well i have been going out with this guy, have been for a year nearly, but he has already 'dated' my freind, they both say nothing is going on, but they still txt each other, and meet up, am i just worrying about nothing? xx

[ummmm1]

Do you trust him and do you trust your friend?

I still text and talk to quite a few of my ex's and nothing has ever happened

[redcrx]

I text most of my exes, I even pop round to see my ex husband some weeks and my partner doesnt mind at all. I have never cheated on my partner and he knows that some of my exes are just great friends to have. Do you trust your partner?

[sam100]

Only you can know what your gut instinct is telling you. If it really bothers you you need to sit down and have a chat with your boyf and lay it out how you are feeling. See if you can reach some sort of agreement with whats OK for the both of you...if you cant then i would say its a bit odd.

[originalspa]

How long have you known your friend? If she's not done anything in the past to hurt you then it should be ok and maybe they're just being friendly as they both know you and obviously have a history between them as well!

Only you can answer this one I'm afraid and seeing as you've already asked them if anything is going on then you'll have to take their word for it unless you seriously suspect something out of the ordinary?

Good luck!