no you're ok!!!,,,he's not doing it the right way!!!,,,,i have done it with a virgin before and its tight too,,,but thats not the point,,,he have to be very soft and kind with his penis at the begining of sex!!,,,,,also he supose to ,,,,caress you lick you kiss you and tickle you all of this on your vagina and clit,
until you are very very wet then he supose to start intercourse kindly and finish kindly too,,,,dont let nobody to let you think its you,,,,,because its not you its him!!!