Is it love?

[Patrick19]

Many people on here know that I have had problems with my ex-girlfriend and we have split up. I am waking up in the mornings thinking of her and feeling so sh*t. I am really missing her and it's only been a few days. I've booked counselling and I don't know if some wise words can go against how I feel for her. Even during our relationship I would often go out with my friends and they would encourage me to talk to other women and I would not usually co-operate and/or would if they persisted just to make them happy. Is that something to do with love?

[angeldraws]

Counselling won't necessarily make you change how feel about your ex, but will more likely help you to specifically identify, and come to terms with your feelings.....
Why your friends encouraged you to talk to other women i don't know, and neither do i understand why you went along with it just to make them happy- it should be what YOU want that counts, NOT what someone else expects of you. don't beat yourself up about it tho'
Since it's only been a few days, you are bound to feel a little down about the situation, you are human after all. But that is the good thing about humans; we have the ability to look to the future and altho, for now, time stands still, you won't always feel like this, unless you choose to.....
Try to do something you really enjoy to take your mind off it all for a while, even if just temporarily.....what did you do before you were together? What have you always wanted to do?
In answer to the actual question....only you will know if it is love or not, but that may not change anything. Keep reminding yourself that you are a valuable person and nothing can change that except you, again, if you choose to....good luck m8

[ummmm]

I have every sympathy for you patrick. This must be a very hard thing for you to deal with. I will pray for you tomorrow and I will ask everyone at my Bible meeting to pray for you also.

Just remember that the Lord is with you and he never leaves your side. He carries you when you are down so look to him when you need strength. If you ever need to talk you can email me at....

[email protected]

God bless you xxxx

[snagged]

;o)

[ummmm]

Praise the LORD xxxxxxxxxxxx

[Athley]

rofl!!!

[raysparx1]

go in peace my son, praise be indeed !!

[raysparx1]

Bacon sandwich !!

[raysparx1]

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion357571.html

[ummmm]

sausage and Mash.......or

Pie and mash....hmmm

Sweet and sour....

[Patrick19]

Thank you Angel. We spent 5 months together and it was a mutual relationship. Things she said that made me feel good as a person, were blown out of the window. I never put my finger entirely on her. She never made it a true relationship, but that may be because I was unemployed. She fell pregnant and told me she wanted to be with me and even have a baby. It is painful as I miss her so much and the things about her. I miss her face, her hair, her body, her laugh, her telephone calls, her eyes especially. I also miss being with her, cuddling her, kissing her, telling her how I feel about her.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, it takes about 2 months to start moving on. After that you will still think of her a lot, but will start to realise that you have to move. You need to keep yourself busy with things that will take your mind off her. Even if its just going for a game of snooker or pool.
The reason your waking up feeling like you do is cos she isnt there. You were probably used to her there every morning, gazing at you and having fun before you got up. It takes time to snap back to reality though and realise that she isnt coming back...

[ummmm]

I will continue to pray for you Patrick. I will ask the Lord to help you with some big words and sentences that makes sense.

[Patrick19]

Life is very immoral.

[ummmm]

Mine isn't

[joko]

how are you not bored of this yet, pads?

it is not funny, interesting or controversial, and the fact that you keep doing it does not show how clever you are at stirring up a response on here, it shoes how tedious you and your little life must be that this is your idea of a good time.

i am putting my finger (!) entirely on you right now - guess which one it is...

[redcrx]

Counselling is the way to go Patrick.
I think you need time alone to think about why she doesnt want you (if you need help then just read what she posted about you before) and as ummmm says, seek guidance from god maybe.

[Miss Inquiry]

Glad you have booked counselling, hope it works.

[Patrick19]

Counselling won't get her back. But, bombing umm and reds houses won't get her back or them. Which is alright I suppose...

[redcrx]

whats bombing my house got to do with it?

[raysparx1]

Bombing ummmms and reds houses ? are you real ? you want your bl00dy head looked at mate !!