sex

[butterfly19]

what turns men on about a woman? im planning a nite of passion with my fella and want to really turn up the heat. any ideas?

[laurence2]

You surely must have an imagination?

I assume turning up the heat is in a word ''SEX''.

is it the 1st time your going to get passionate with your fella, the reason i asked this is you would have an idea about likes/dislikes etc

[-Zorro-]

Black French Knockers under a Baby Doll

[sarnieken]

Depends on what he's into. Different guys like different things. I wouldn't pull out the spikey rubber d*ldo unless you're sure he won't run away screaming like a girl.

If you're wanting to up the ante without crossing lines then you could start with something mild like a particularly sexy item of lingerie and the bedroom only lit by candles.

Following that there are blindfolds, tying up and role play.
Its up to you where you could go after that. If you're going to get really serious or into bondage etc then make sure you agree beforehand a safe word so that if either of you isn't comfortable then you can back out.

If you are just discovering each other's fantasies then be honest with each other about what turns you on and you will have an amazing night. Its amazing how much you can get turned on just by talking about what gets you going.

As for what turns me on about a woman, it has to be the undressing. Just by changing the speed / manner of how it is done can make your experience either a quick moment of passion or an entire night's lovemaking.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, just ask your mate to come round and have a session with her and let your guy watch.
If that doesnt work, he is not the right guy for you...

[country_boy]

Short skirt, black hold ups, fm boots and a filthy mouth!

[Roughquest]

Men are very visual creatures, so the traditional black stockings, suspenders, stiletto heels work every time ! Wear a seductive top too, and bright red lipstick and you cant go wrong, may I suggest that you softly tie his hands to the bedstead so he is forced to just watch - if you have long hair tie it up loosely and then undress very slowly in front of him and lastly let your hair down and I can guranteee he wont know what to do with himself he will want you big time! ENJOY!

[andy-hughes]

Depending how far you want to take this - a guarentee of success is to keep eye contact. Smile slowly, lick your lips slowly, caress your arms, then across your midriff and hips, then your breasts - if that isn;t getting him started, you can switch tactics with no obvious embarassment, but since he's a bloke ... it'll work ... trust me ...

[Nummy]

Zorro..don't you mean knickers?





Then again maybe not!

lol

[Pippa68]

Crikey if I did all that it would all be over in a minute..tops!

[Sasha13]

And while we're at it, was is it with blokes and white underwear?? Every bloke I talk to seems to love it!

[Pippa68]

You could be right there, Sasha. No black or red for my hubby..he loves white!

[cartman99]

Zorro dude, Ive been laughing for 5 minutes, you have made my day.

As for why men like white underwear, its possibly linked to when they became sexually active ( teens ) and their first encounters with the exotic under garments of ladies?.

Gosh i think most men love a partner who participates willingly and really throws herself into it!

That and leave the United game on the tv. (Wink!)

[butterfly19]

cheers for answers. and no its not the first time weve been together for five years and already have a steamy sex life, i was just lookin for ideas to suprise him with something new! everything thats been said ive done! n yes it does work. very well! white underwear... whats that about? black corset n suspenders works a treat

[s1walker1]

take it up the pipe hole

[brooky28]

i appreciate different people have different turn ons but white underwear?? no way, its gotta be black, everytime or maybe red! also ask him what he'd like, i wish my partner would ask me although she'd probably do a runner, ha ha.
finally, tell him what you like, nothing turns me on more than knowing my partner's enjoying it! does that make sense?

[gothicdejavu]

wearing something very traditional (kinda old fashioned) yet a little revealing.
he comes home, you say "you look kinda tired, leme help you with the load" and ... help him with his load.
Hold on! thats just a two moinute thing and make sure it's quick and he gets all the inital urge out of the way. Give him time to freshen up and change and everything and get ready for a nice memorable evening...
you probably have the table set up or something... or whatever the other part of the surprise is, is waiting... add the finishing touches and get together for fdinner and converssationa dn everything.
Finally, when the courting (is that what it's called?) and everything is out of the way, amke out like the first few times... not doing much but still doing whatever youre doing, a lot.
The idea of helping him with his load in the begining is to not have him constantly think of getting his load of while having dinner making conversationw ith you and all... cos thats just gonna distrac him and colour the evening with just sex. i mean you want diffrent colours right?

OR,

he comes home and you're waiting for him naked. Gesture, watch him fumble like an idiot and hurry up and all... then tease him to death.. then finish off in what fashion pleases you guys best.