Boredom busting ....What could we do?

[Cockney_si]

My girlfriend and I....

The kids in bed, we've seen lots of dvd films and we want to do something different that isn't sexual, what can we do together?

[4getmenot]

board games

[Kaylz1988]

Well me and my bloke when we are having a night in we usually order a takeaway (usually kebab)... and buy a bottle of drink, listen to some music, have a joke around. Its them sorta times I really enjoy cheap and just together...

or

You could cook her a really nice meal (tescos do chinese bags for 2, all you gotta do is warm em up lol) candles, rose petals and the rest of it. And just conversate over a meal... :-)

[cartman99]

get a wii

[Kaylz1988]

Lol... I dont think she'd be impressed!!! Lol... actually they do look pretty fun though... When my bloke got his xBox 360 live... i tried everything 2get his attention.... threw myself at him, and he jus wasnt interested so maybe a game console isnt such a gd idea if u wanna spend quality time 2geva!!! :-)

[cartman99]

Kaylz, your always on here, get some work done!, I have found to my surprise that the Wii goes down equally well with both sexes. Really different to the 360.

Why dont you invent lots of log on for the answer bank and post awkward questions to generate debate, assuming your different AB identities to wind up as many people as possible.

That or knitting?

[Kaylz1988]

Lol... I work in accounts do you know how boring that can be??

Knitting hmmm :-) dunno bout that lol...

Is the poster even reading ne of these suggestions?

[cartman99]

I work in compliance, I know all about boredom.

I don't know, not everyone can spend all day on here like us!

[hbandtr4eva]

If you're staying at home, how bout watching the first film you ever saw together as a couple? Cook her her favourite meal? If she's been at work all day have a bath run for her, and the kids in bed, then bring her champagne/a glass of wine, and just snuggle up on the sofa together. Maybe get the kids grandparents to babysit if you want to go out? Have you tried Salsa dancing together, it's fun as well as flirty, and doesn't matter if you aren't that good.

There's some random suggestions, me and my boyfriend have taken a picnic and some nice wine and jusat on the beach for the evening before, that's always nice to do. Hope you have a good time, it's nice to know that not all guys out there consider not having sex as boring :o)

xxx

[Black Noir]

I agree with Cartman - get a wii, we had friends round at the weekend who brought theirs and we played 4 player ten pin bowling and tennis , curry and bottle of wine ...was quiet a laugh.

we also do exercise dvds together, which is fun watching the wobbly bits.

[Cockney_si]

Thanks peeps, we've only been together for 7 weeks so first everythings are still fresh in our minds...ha ha....In the end I did a bit of singing for her and then we searched the net for lyrics of songs she could sing to me, then we did a duet...lol

[Kaylz1988]

Awww thats sweet!

[SaintAleia]

play hide and seek!! the best game in the world!
not just for kids, even my parents still play it lol.
and no we're not a load of weirdos! just like having silly fun :D