cheating rat

[lpink]

what would you do if your partner came home after being out for the evening smelling like they had been with somone else ?(and i dont maen aftershave or perfume) would you tell them or carry on as normal and jst hope that it stops

[~Wingnut~]

Personally I wouldn't be able NOT to say something, it would eat away at me and I would need to discuss it with my husband and try to find out why he stinks of another woman. Of course there could be another explanation (not sure what!) I think everyone is different and would handle this situation differently.

I take it your talking about a female partner, it depends on whether you want to carry on burying your head in the sand and be with someone who may not be being faithful to you.
It will fester if left alone.

[redhead23]

doh , tell them self respect why would u let someone get away with knocking off someone else !!!!!
ask him out straight

why would u just 'hope it stops'

[lpink]

we both have children from previous relationships one has just left school and is doing exams the other is 6 and has a nervous disposion the 6 year old struggles to cope with change and there speech breaks down have spent 2 years getting it back to normalafter an insodent at nursery its a difficult time for both children and mr lpink is allways out i look after both children dont know what would happen to his child if i left i have never been unfaithfull but im thinking about now myself after bumping in to old flame

[4getmenot]

if you are talking from your point of view maybe he's read your posts about getting sex somewhere else and done it to you first. If its just a general qusetion then I'd talk to them about it.

[Cockney_si]

Yes I agree with 4get menot, maybe he has found out about your post on here in various sections about how he's not up for the job and you looking around elesewhere for others etc.

[time2fly]

talk to him, if your not having sex, and things are not right you need to sort it one way or the other. You can't look after his kid if he is out givin it to some one else - if you don't it'll drive u mad...

[4getmenot]

what harsh, she was asking the other day about finding sex elsewhere

[4getmenot]

did I say that?? I said he may have read that and she even said she's looking elsewhere in this post. If you cant answer the question...... :-)

[4getmenot]

accepted :-)

[lpink]

hubby hasnt a clue about computers would not know how to switch it on so he never read my posts and allready cheated b4 not that i could prove it then thanks anyway

[Pippa68]

How do you smell like you have been with someone else...have I missed something?

[yummymum]

The only way i would know by smell if my partner had been else where would be to smell his bits....ewwww, maybe he was just sweaty?? ewwwww again. lol

[4getmenot]

or fishy eeeeew eeeeeew

[Pippa68]

That doesn't necessarily suggest he has been with someome else though...just that he doesn't wash very often!

[yummymum]

If his bits smelt you never know what he could have been doing with them....the mind boggles!

[Markandshez]

you obviously want to cuckold him so do it. From your previous posts that is where you are leading to. Either split up or cuckold him.

[yummymum]

maybe im dumb but what does cuckold him mean???