confused

[tazz]

if your bf had a female work mates number on his phone but put her under a mans name n told u it was a male friend what would u think?

[Goodsoulette]

Thats what a bloke I had an affair with did. I was Alan. Unless of course you are mentally jealous, so he felt he had to do this , then I would assume something was amiss.

[Neilzulu1]

Or you are a slapper.

[tiny e.a]

I would think he didn't trust me not to be jealous about a friendship with a female colleague or to go through his phone. That's not to say it's all innocent, it sounds a bit dodgy to me, unless you have had a history of going mental at him about him having female friends.

[Reverandfunk]

How do you know about this?

[jno]

sounds like a lack of trust on both sides. He's allowed to have female friends, I would have thought, but why do you think he's hiding it?

[tazz]

he was always funny abt work dos n saying i couldn`t go n that hes going wiv his mate.i was preg at the time they went on first work do n he left me full term in pain wiv an 18month old to. he didnt tell me he was going on work do he told me it was a meeting then came home p!ssed. no i only go mad when he lies like this, i have male friends but i let him meet them

[tazz]

n no neilzulu1 im not a slapper, i have 2 kids n never cheated

[tazz]

i dont no jno y hes hiding it, never came across this b4. he used to always check up on me thou when i was doing nothing wrong

[jno]

then I stick with what I said: lack of trust on both sides. This doesn't mean you're wrong, but you could well be wrong for each other. You shouldn't be going out partying when your partner's about to give birth, imho. Why exactly are you sticking with him?

[tazz]

i know n it hurt cos she rang him when we were at docs n he dumpewd me n my boy home n ******** off. im with him cos i do love him n wanna trust him again, n we got 2 kids. just dont know how to put it behide me. plays on my mind everyday

[xhxmxsx]

he dropped u off with your kids to go off with this woman! did he give you a reason he was going to see her? i know you love him and you have kids together but i'm sorry there is no way he should be treating you like that and you need to put your foot down , i would not stand for it

[tazz]

he told me he was going to a important meeting xhxmxsx, but he really went to his work do with a women

[xhxmxsx]

so when he came back did u question him about it? i know love is blind and all that crap but come on tazz you cant let him walk all over you like this

[tazz]

he came bk p!ssed, i found out that he went on work do that nite but not he went with the women, found that out a yr later.

[xhxmxsx]

ok, i think you need to ask him all this stuff

ask him why he needs to hide womens phone numbers from you, ask him why he ditches you for work events with other women and lie to you about it!

[tazz]

i did n he said cos i wouldn`t of liked it, the only thing i wouldn`t of liked is being left full term preg in pain. the only thing i dont like abt his friendship with her is the lies. he said i would of went mad abt him havin female friend but he didnt know if i would have or not cos its never happened. n i got male friends n he knows all of them females to. i dont know any of his

[xhxmxsx]

maybe you need to ask him why he'd assume you wouldnt like him having female friends!

[xhxmxsx]

sounds like he's making excuses to me

[hayley2956]

i hate to say it but i would think cheater. this is exactly how my mate started cheating on her boyfriend, had the other blokes name in her phone as 'ruth'

deffo suspicious to me

[haysi06]

Id think he was cheating. Check his phonebill, if the number comes up a lot then he is cheating for sure. I mean, guys DONT text each other that often.