affair

[kitten_uk2]

This question is more to a bloke i supose. im not intending on having an affair, as im quite happy at mo for a change, but was just thinking if ever i was going to have an affair, i wouldnt want sex with them, because i can get that at home, sex isnt a problem, what it would be is a bloke to pay me attention, which sometimes is lacking in my relationship, would i find it hard to find a bloke that would only want to worship me not have sex with me?

[sleepy1]

most men only want the sex part i guess

[Huderon]

I had an affair once. Got to know her on line, met and it was a couple of months before we actually got around to sex. We knew that would happen at some point but were too busy enjoying each others company to be in a rush to get there. We carried on for about 4 years, but to be honest, the sex, great as it was, was really secondary

[someone56789]

are you a big goRRilla by any chance? lol

[Huderon]

lol ... Someone, if that question was aimed at me, nope, I'm not a gorrilla, though like the rest of us I'm distantly related :-)

[legend758duo]

an afffair without sex is called a conversation lol

[Huderon]

That's a pretty loose definition of an affair legend ! If that was true I'd be having a fair number of affairs every day.

Hmmm ... come to think of it, perhaps that's why I'm so knackered when I get home of an evening !