wife and coke (part2)

[TAH1612]

pls read "wife and coke" first. she did coke before we were married. I have done so a few times aswell but only to keep me awake long enough so that she might want sex. We never brought alot either. We have hardly ever had sex when she hasnt been drunk or high. Since weve been married though its like she thinks its a license to do what she wants. She spends upto �150-�200 in a night and since weve been married even that isnt enough to get her in the mood. She comes up to me and insinuates that we will have geat sex all night long and how much she loves me and so on but, as soon as shes got the stuff she completely turns around. She goes out and leaves me indoors with the kid and doesnt come back until the next day. If i try to ring her she gets a friend to answer. I just dont know ehere the woman i married has gone. Its only been a month. Seems asthough marriage has really ****** things up. Someone help. Any suggestions?

[cazzz1975]

if you are not addicted then dont take it...I bet you cant stop!

[taperface]

Yes - your wife has a drug problem, and for the sake of herself, your marriage - and mainly that of your child - you need to address this with her. If she refuses to get help, you need to make sure that your child is being well cared for. This means never taking any more of this so-called recreational drug again. It seems to me that you're going along with things just on the promise of sex. There's far more involved, to make a strong & happy marriage - which doesn't seem to be the case with you at the moment. Sorry - but I feel sorry for your child, in having such irresponsible parents.