Are you like this with anyone?

[SKA]

Me and one of my friends (I'm a girl he's a he) we get on really well, we're always messing about and stuff, but people always assume there's something else going on between us. No-one says anything if I mess around with other guys it only happens with him! It's so strange I treat him like a brother like I'm always getting money and lifts of him and stuff. Anyway we just laugh it off like EWW but then this girl who liked him didn't tell him because she thought there was something going on between us two. So I feel bad sometimes even though I'm not even doing anything!! Are you like that with anyone?

[888sally888]

My daughter who is 17 had a best male frien at college. They were very close friends and everyone (me included) thought they were or wold soon be an item. She was adament that they were friends only.

A year on she is dating him and they are really happy!!

So, I dont know - maybe one day with you and him? (Please dont shout at me!!)

[SKA]

I dont see that happening with us!!!
We spoken about when we're married (to other people) that we have to sort things out for each other if things go wrong.
And he's not the type of guy I go for at all!!

[888sally888]

Thats what my daughter said all the time "he's not for me" etc and got realy cross when i teased her about it!!

I am sure he will always be in your life anyway which is lovely.

I have 2 male friends who I grew up with and have never fancied so this could go either way for you!!

[SKA]

OMG Sally you sound like two of my other close friends (girls) they think us two should get together for some crazy reason!

[888sally888]

SORRY!!!!!!!!

Listen, seriosly just enjoy his friendship and let it go however you feel comfortable.

I have to say though my daughter is so happy!!

[China Doll]

No.

Have close male friends but it's definitely just friendship.

No grey areas.

If there's a grey area it usually leads to a problem.

[Reverandfunk]

Me and China are just like that lol

[China Doll]

Have you not got a vespa you can go play with?!