Wife lingerie queston , (very personal)

[marriedmann]

Am I as a husband that works hard, woo's my wife, does things for her to take the pressure off, wrong to feel sexually frustrated with my wife? She just started working f/t again and I don't get to see her in the lingerie I buy for her or even just in bra and panties in the bedroom. I understand we are both very tired at the end of the day but she says she wants sex but never does anything about it.

[bobclean]

Hi, marriedmann, I don't think it's a case of right and wrong, it sounds as that you are a little hostile towards your wife, and maybe you both need to sit down and talk & try to arrange some time for just the two of you. Maybe go for a meal together, no friends, no family, no kids, just the two of you. Hopefully the romance will help your wife to feel wanted and loved, and then....

[andrea81]

As a wife, I have a similar experience to your wife's. I do want sex, but I don't really like putting out the signals as it's not really my personality. So my hubby taking the initiative makes me feel really wanted and sexy! I think this might instigate her to feel more sexy and maybe instigate things with you too!

[Pippa68]

What pants do you wear?

Does she have to wear the lingerie in order for you to have sex?

Is this Q more about the lingerie than the state of your sex life?

[Myriad2112]

Mine is the same, we both work f/t and and at weekends we're both too tired to make the effort. sadly we don't even talk about it anymore as it would mean find a reason for the lack of interest. maybe it's just what 20yrs of marriage does to you.

[Youravonlady]

I was wondering much the same as Pippa.

I'd also say that if she really wants sex like you say she does you shouldn't have to wait long. Damn sure it wouldn't if it were me. That does not mean you should lie back and wait for it to happen though. Between the two of you something might happen!