Should I?

[BlondeBeauty]

Me and my BF have been together nearly two months now, and I really like him, were not really that old and we had only knew eachother about 5 months before we started seeing each other. We have become really close and have a fairly mature relationship. We have argued a few times but we always sit down and talk it out afterwoulds. The other day he asked me if I was ready to have sex, and I told him I wasn't sure, he was completly understanding and said I could think about it as long as I want. What should I do? Should I sleep with him? I don't know, all I know is how much I feel for him, and how much it would hurt to loose him.

[Youravonlady]

The fact that you are here asking says you are ready yet. When the time is right you'll know it.

[888sally888]

I agree - if you were ready you wouldnt hesitate. He sounds lovely and understanding and i am sure by waiting till the time is right, the relatonship will be even better x

[daffy654]

I agree,it doesn't sound like you are ready yet. Now might be a good time to discuss with him what kind of contraception you will be using when the time is right,then there will be no embarrassment or confusion at the critical moment.

[sophie_1003]

the fact that he asked rather than just trying it on shows that he respects that it's something you have to decide when you're ready for it, wait until your sure, if he doesnt want to wait for you it just shows he's not really worth it.
me and my boyfriend had been together for three months when he asked if i was ready to have sex, i told him i wasn't but about two months later, i felt i'd got to know him better and we were properly in love, i felt i was ready, but it was not until another two months after that that we actually did it, we're still together 5 years on so we must've done something rightby waiting!

[Mr k]

Don't expect too much from your first time having sex.
After its over you will probably say is that it in your head
Sex gets better with experience and when you get to know your partner more..
Oh make sure you are protected for sex you don't want any little tiny feet yet
Good luck and enjoy

[ftj001]

Don't do it until your ready. And if you are between the age of 11-19 you are definately not ready. If he leaves you because of that then you don't need him.