spark

[tazz]

once the sparks gone does it ever come back?

[Betty Noir]

I think it can do - if you want it to. I'm assuming by "spark" you mean that you and your other half don't seem to have a romantic, exiting, sexy relationship anymore, and you feel like you've gone off him/her.

There's always the obvious option of going for couples therapy. Maybe you could try going away on a romantic break, if you've got kids, leave them with someone trustworthy and enjoy the fact that it's just the two of you.

How long have you been together?

[smrcubby]

From experience once the spark is gone its gone. You can't get that back.

However that doesn't mean you don't carry a torch in your heart still but its never the same.

[Reverandfunk]

Nope....

[Betty Noir]

Speaking from personal experience, i know it's possible, because my husbamd and i got our spark back, when we were on the brink of getting a divorce.

as i said yesterday, i think you can if you both *want* to. but you have to want it.

[tazz]

thanx 4 your answers, cant go on a break cos we got 2 kids n no one will have them if we go away. we aint been out together 4 over a yr now. been together 7 yrs. it just dont feel like he`s attravted to me anymore