Hormones?

[c.shallow]

Since I found out I was pregnant with my 2nd child, my feelings towards my partner seem to have changed. I don't know why, we've been together for 6 years and I didn't feel like this in my last pregnancy. Everything he does seems to irritate me, and can't even stand him kissing or cuddling me sometimes! I don't know what to do because I really do love him,I was never like this before I became pregnant. I know if I carry on I will drive him away!

[banjobabe]

Hey CShallow,

Have you spoken to him about this? You know that it is down to hormones, or at least that it is not how you generally feel about him.

Maybe if he let up on the cuddles and kisses for a while it would help. I think talking to him would be the best place to start.

Hope this helps BB xx

[idly_enjoys]

There's an article in November's issue of Eve which talks about how much harder a 2nd pregnancy is. In the first one, everything is magical and new and you get lots more attention and your husband looks after you. But during the second pregnancy you know all the difficulty that is involved, the feeling sick and the pain etc, plus the fact that the novelty is gone and your partner doesn't look after you as much. If I were you, I'd be a bit ****** off with that too.

[luckyman]

its not fair on the poor guy,im sure he luvs u with all his heart,try be patient and maybe things will change..i feel a bit sorry for him...woman i still cant understand them sometimes after all this time...anyway give it time and also if u keep this up wot u gona do if u split wi 2 kids on ur own? think about it? its really not fair on him so giv him a break and just try for a while im sure thing s will change for the better