A good date?

[sssg4]

I met a guy on an internet dating site. set up a date, I had o cancel. Odd text every couple of days for 2/3 weeks. Finally met up last night. He picked me up and dropped me off and I had a great time - really like him. He text to say had fun/finally nice to meet etc. Just browsing a social networking site we are both on and looks like he is flirting with some girl, who may be a friend but seems more than that to me. Bit confused about it as clearly got along great and the follow up texts must be a good sign and only one date I know but a bit confused!!

[CheekyChops]

I wouldn't worry about it, he probably can't see the harm in a bit of flirting when he has only been on one date with you, and neither can I to be honest. If you do carry on seeing each other and it gets a bit more serious then I would hope that he will stop it but not for someone he has been out with once. He probably does like you a lot but I do think you are overreacting slightly.

If I was in his situation, I wouldn't stop contact with men online just because I had been on one date with some new bloke!

[123everton]

I agree with cheeky chops, it's a little bit rude perhaps but it's all on-line so it's different to your eyes meeting across a crowded room. It's early days yet, gon out a few more times and see how it goes.
Don't forget what's sauce for the goose....

[sssg4]

yes can see why may appear to be overreacting but it's not the fact he is flirting...just wondering what he is looking for I guess and when/if it comes to arranging a 2nd date-will feel a bit weird...anyway guess shall have to see.

[luckyman]

well dont worry bout it luv, u cant really say its serious stages yet btween u two can u? hes only keeping his options open,i have been on internet dating b4 myself..i would only be interested in a bit of flirting and fun,mostly one nite stands etc but i didint actully meet anyone serious as i et my present girlfriend on hols anyway wot im saying is it doesnt mean hes not inrterested in u at al.u must understand us guys..it will take a while for him to get more involved with u.try see him more often and dont be shy to ask him out again for a few nites,,if he makes up an excuse or doesnt seem interested then 4get him...u can find love omn these dating sites and they are full of guys who are only interested in one nite stands but if u click with the rite person then bingo good for u..im a guy of course and sometimes i met girls and if we had sex on the firstdate i wud probably not meet up again,i was only interested really honestly in finding love and a soul mate but its kinda like sex was good an that with some of the girls but deep down in my heart it wasnt wot i was lookin 4...keep searchin an u will find the rite guy for sure but dont be desperate....did i go on a bt there hahaha only after my morn coffee sorry..gooduck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sssg4]

thanks luckyman

He text last night...result!!!!!
Asked if I fancied meeting up again some time so seems pretty promising. I sincerely hope he doesn�t just want fun so I thought people on dating sites (not a sleazy one) would be looking for something a bit more serious.

[sssg4]

Im not intense...just not used to dating game so just seeking advice. I am the last person you would call a bunny boiler...
1 date doesn't make marriage...really??? ;-)