What do you think

[HelenaM]

Since my husband left me a few years ago, I have found going out very difficult. I recently joined an online dating site. I met a chap. He used to phone me every night, normally for 4 or 5 hours. We then met. Afterwards he phoned me again saying he wanted to meet again. We talked the following few nights. His parting words were that he would call me the next day. Then nothing, nada, zilch. He has blocked me on his email and on the dating site and will not answer my calls (albeit, I did only call him once the other night, so I suppose he could have been out). What do you think? What should I do? Trouble is, I really liked this chap.

[bednobs]

i think he dosent want to see you anymore.
He has the means to contact you but hasn't
Unfortunately when one of two people dosent want a relationship, the one who does has to out up with it!

[HelenaM]

I think you are right Bedknobs. What I don't understand is saying one day "can't wait to see you again, call you tomorrow" and the next day nothing. Perhaps I was best off single!!

[tiggerblue10]

I agree with Roaldo. The trouble with these dating sites is that you don't know who else they are chatting to and meeting up with.

[unrulyjulie]

I would say he probably had a few lined up too and was just deciding which to "choose" so to speak.Im so sorry for you HelenaM, unfortunately you do have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince!
This sort of thing does annoy me though, i cant see why someone cant give you an explanation of sorts cause if your confidence is a bit low anyway, it makes you worse, wondering what on earth you did wrong, when in fact the answer is more than likely nothing!

Do nothing now, wait and see what happens, if he doesnt call after a day or so, i think you can write him off.sorry.

I wish you loads of luck.

[HelenaM]

Thank you guys for your honest and sensible answers. I think I am going to try a different site as well - there seems to be a lot of married men on this one. Has anyone tried either dating direct or match.com? They seem to be the "top two". If I am going to spend money on this, I may as well invest wisely!

[angel-cake]

How do you know he has blocked your emails and on the dating site? Does it tell you that??

[shamblerjone]

I was on Dating Direct for a few years on and off, it wasn't too bad, don't think I ever met any married ones although couldn't be too sure but did find that I was usually disappointed, probably because my expectations were up too high and ended up meeting with the wrong chaps. I stopped using the sites as I was fed up meeting the wrong people. I think it would be the same for all sites (not just dd).

[manies]

i think this guy was bored. thus his reason to speak to u 4 four or five hours on a telephone? what on earth can u say to one another for sooo long?