im being left out

[ciara louise]

hiyah

please help. theres these 2 girls hu i have been best friends with since we were little , ive known them all my life. until i was about 8 we wer the bes of friends, we had never fallen out. but then this girl moved to our sreet and its ruined everything. she is nice when im on my own with her but when its all 4 of us they all leave me out and it gets me down.when my 2 friends( hu ive known for ages) talk about her and i DON'T, they tel the other girl things hat they have sed about her, but saying i sed it. i cant trust none of them. the 2 girls are fine wen we are own but they are scared of the other girl so they show off in front of her. wen we are playing games they make me go with other people and when we have sleepovers without the newer girl even when shes not in she goes mad, i cant hang ou with with them on my own , maybe she feels abit of an ousider because she hasnt lived here the longest and i respect that but shes horrible, there are so many other storys about this but too many 2 tell! when me and the newer girl have fell out i say sorry and she wont even when i didnt 2 anything. and the other girls go on her side. my mum thinks its jus the newer girl but its the other 2 aswell and the newer girl has robbed 2 things off me and lied 2 my parens about it.

i dont care if they see this letter because they need to no how horrible they are actually being. i cant trust them. i will never tell them anyhing again. the girls who tell her things that i have said, but i havent, dont no that i know they are doing. im not stupid. if i decide not 2 be there friends i will have no one 2 hang out wiv on my street.

bye reply really soon pleasee

thankyouu xx =[

i feel so down about this what can i do

[Jazzmanrules]

It seems this new girl is using your friends to make you feel left out. This maybe because she wants a good friend and thinks your best friends are the ones but also as a way to keep you away and feel depressed.
I would keep away from them (the new girl and your best friends) for a day or two and try to gather yourself so you know how to resolve this. I would talk to your best friends after this to alert them on the situation you are going through. Hopefully they'll understand but if they don't take this on board and continue, I would make your feelings known by almost shouting and say how this girl is ruining your relationship with your best friends (With this girl present).
If after this they're still being bitchy, leave them - they're obviously untrustworthy.

[ChocolatChip]

Hi there, you've posted this a couple of times I've noticed. And the advice you got before was pretty good. And I can't really add anymore to it.
But you don't deserve them. I had the same problem and it was dreadful. It hurts loads. I'd just dump them, join some clubs and be really pro-active about it. Find yourself some new friends. And when the group all falls to pieces, you can say you're better than that, and that you knew it was going to happen.

[andrea81]

Having trouble trying to tfigure out how old you are sorry. You're talking of things that are quite young, but posting on here???

I'm guessing you're young as you talk about playing games? So my advice is find other friends, you'll realise later in life that there are more to life than having the same group of friends!

If you're not there, they will probably turn on eachother anyway! And you can have the last laugh with new friends!

Good luck x

[ciara louise]

hii im 13 , wen i sed playin games i meant wen we were younger and wen we just hang out on the street =]

[wiggal]

Hei ciara louise,

I have been best mates with my best friend, well forever, we were born next to eachother and went on from there! We were inseperable the first 12 years of our lives, till we went to secondary school.
There was a girl there, who hated me with a passion, and she did steal my best friend off me, we didnt speak for 4 years and when we did, it was not nice words!

Until after 4 years, she came to me and said that she regretted ever becoming friends with the other girl, and knew that she had delibereately been a b***** to me.

Me & my best mate are now as close as ever, we dont see each other often, but we speak alot and she hates her old friend, wouldnt go near her ever!

At the end of the day, I think no matter what, I true friend will come back! I said some harsh things to her back at school, she said the same back, we regret it very much, but can also laugh about it now.

[ciara louise]

hi, thankyou so much for the advise.

but it still happens n makes me soo upset. 1 of them says she hates the new girl but on her msn name it says shes her best friend n y wud she say that if she hates her?!. i just miss them wen it was just the 3 of us. i sed 2 one of them i liked it wen it was just us 3 coz we was best friends bt nw im left out n its like we r breaking apart n she agreed wiv me bt then the new girl sums n they just leave me out again!