Either you're an incredibly tough nut & an opportunist to boot or you're incredibly dense, I haven't decided yet - is this his way of keeping you quiet? He's been unfaithful to his wife, sexually assaulted you & you think it's okay to stay where you are because he's going to buy you off with a management course? If you had half a wit of sense, you'd leave that job immediately but seeing as you don't see what he says when you refuse to say the contract until he removes the clause saying you have to pay them back for the course if you leave. Whoever's drafted that contract is trying to hog tie you, if you say anything about being sexually assaulted he'll say you made it up because of the contract he forced you to sign.